Stop Accepting the Gift of Guilt.

We learned as kids that every choice has a consequence. It can be amazing. It can be detrimental.  It is our job to accept the consequence with the choice.  Guilt is an emotion that will have you believing you are the WORST person in the world. You are not.  You are a great and valuable person to this world regardless of your choices.  NEVER let anyone force you to be guilty about choosing you. That is a gift you can live without.

Am I My Hair.

Some sistas are forced to this position as a result of health issues and medication, but they can embrace it boldly and redefine the look. The “I am Not My Hair” position is not wanting to be defined as a woman by one’s hair. I find that today hair is being defined by the woman and it is a part of you being.

Helping Those That Have And Continue To Serve Us.

Tweet (ThySistas.com) Any husband or wife with their spouse in the military will tell you, they have an incredible other half. Someone who is brave, selfless, tough and always thinks of others before themselves. Men and women in the military are perhaps the best examples of our society. It doesn’t matter what their background is […]

Pain Can Be a Drug.

This may require new surroundings, a strong spiritual lifestyle, learning to value yourself, and distancing yourself from negative people that dump on and tear you down. This may include some family members, but remember your healing but more important. Pain may be a drug in your life, but you don’t have to accept it nor live addicted to it. Take the step towards freedom, and the happiness you deserve.

Friend or FRIEND?

That did not work. So, I had to work to build communication.  I had to be honest while crying and screaming.  I had to bow out of a lot of great opportunities out of respect for a friendship.  It was not easy at all, but I would not change any of it. The experiences helped me to realize that effective friendships take work, and they are not just simple buttons on a webpage.

He’s Still Your Baby.

My father saw my sister and I, both married and mothers, as his babies until he passed. He wasn’t demonized for such…he loved my brother the same. Children, regardless of age, should experience their parents love for as long as life permits. They should know they will always be someone’s pride and joy…someone’s baby.

It’s Not You. It’s You.

Society will have most people believe that the fault in a relationship is not us.  We are perfect. They are stupid.  It is their fault. However, that makes no sense.  We chose to be in the relationship with the person. There was something we were attracted to that we wanted to explore and possibly make into something more. So when it does not work out, do not immediately go to blaming the other person.  Think about your part in relationship. Sometimes, it really is you.

Start Your Day with You.

If every task wasn’t completed be gentle with yourself there is another day. Having time set aside for you is one way of rendering self-care, and you are establishing that you are indeed a priority. Everyone else will follow suit, and you won’t feel like an expendable part of the day. You are valuable, and important. The first person that must acknowledge such, and act on it, is you.

Getting Value For Money From Your Home.

Tweet (ThySistas.com) When it comes to moving home, the costs can soon mount up and that dream home can seem further away than ever when you start factoring in legal fees, removals and applying for a mortgage that you may or may not get. But when you’re busting out of your living space, something’s got […]

3 Ways To Prevent Data Loss In Your Business.

Tweet (ThySistas.com) Data loss is a big concern for all businesses and if you don’t look after your data properly, it could cause you some serious problems. Businesses collect so much information about their customers and some of it, like credit card details, for example, is very sensitive. It’s your responsibility to look after that […]

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