Monday, August 26, 2019


Cheating Isn’t Always A Breaker.

August 23, 2019 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationship Talk, Weekly Columns

Women should support each other or at the very least remain silent when the women in their life face this challenge in their marriage. They already feel vulnerable and attacked; support would be the best course of action. Every cheating situation won’t end in divorce and its okay; it doesn’t mean someone is weak and lacking in the dignity department.

Set You Child’s Academic Expectation.

There is a confidence that come with being the best in one’s class that builds the drive from excellence in every task one sets out to achieve. We need our children to experience being the best. They will face enough in this world that will try to make them feel less than; they must excel in every area by which they have control. This drive for greatness begins at home with the expectation of the parents.

The Village Doesn’t Always Forgive.

August 13, 2019 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationship Talk, Weekly Columns

If you plan on staying keep certain information away form that village as they will never be able to unhear it once it comes out. You won’t be able to judge them for taking a protective position as they are loyal to you, and the position is valid. Your village doesn’t have to forgive those that harm you.

Sometimes It’s Not Hurt.

Furthermore, no one should feel communicating respectfully, but truthfully, for fear of being told they are hurtful. In this space any relationship is in danger. If you committed hurt by all means humble yourself and try to make it right. However, if you didn’t please don’t sit back and become a scapegoat for someone’s feelings. Just as they would deserve better so do you.

No One is Ever Enough.

If everything a man does is wrong no matter how hard he tries to make you happy, and you maintain a double standard you can very well run off your Mr. Right. If that happens it won’t be a cause of no one wanting to love you as much as you not allowing yourself to be loved. In some instances, the brother is not intimidates by who we are, we are simply unreasonable because nothing is ever enough.

The Failure in Forgiveness.

Failing at forgiveness does not mean failing at life. It just means growth. We have to understand that improving the ability to forgive takes experiences and maturity. It is not easy, but it is not impossible. Just remember to let go and learn. Oh, and do NOT burn up a car.

Tips to Stay Committed in Long Distance Relationships.

Whether you travel by car, bus, train or airplane, you have to do the work to stay in a committed long distance relationship.  Make sure that the goal in this relationship is to eventually be together in the same space.  But for now, enjoy each other at a distance and be creative with how you will communicate and that’s how you stay committed in a long distance relationship.

Living the Single Life.

A man or woman should only add value to the value that you already possess.  To my understanding, the choices are hard out there dating for various reasons and age does not determine maturity.  When you are single, live your life to the fullest, and this is not to say you can’t do that if you’re in a relationship. 

Why Fight the Side Chick.

Furthermore, if she does know deal with her apart from him. She violated your trust on a personal level and ought to stand accountable for such. In either space the partner has to be liable for the violation of your relationship because only the people involved can open the door for it to be damaged in this way. It’s time out for wasting energy on fighting the side chick.

Dating in Your 40’s.

Dating in your 40’s may be a challenge but I have to believe that it’s possible to do and can be enjoyable with someone who you are equally yoked with. 

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