Friday, July 1, 2022

Ungrateful Spirits Destroy Families.

Let’s stop giving strangers, and setting ourselves up for hurt, the love and roses that our family earned. Yes, there are those that have terrible family dynamics, but that doesn’t apply to everyone. Furthermore, your stance on gratitude is a question if your character, not that of someone else.  

Leave Russell Wilson & Ciara Alone.

The couple that comes to mind is Russell Wilson and Ciara. Seriously, the hates need to leave these people alone. This couple appears to be doing right by each other and their children.

How to Have the Best Honeymoon with Your Loved One.

After you’ve sorted out all the logistics of your trip, it’s time to start packing! When packing for your honeymoon, be sure to pack items that are both functional and stylish.

Marriage Can Bless or Destroy a Woman.

. Some wives began to turn themselves into what is deemed a “respectable” wife, and this usually involves silence and doing what one is told. Expertise and intelligence are only useful when it benefits or defends the family. This can destroy a woman at her core.

Don’t Call Me Sistah.

Sometimes you get to a place in life where the title of sistah must be taken off the table. No one is perfect; we all make mistakes. Relationships have their moments, and sisterhood is no different.

Your Village and Community are Different.

The first person you owe honestly, reciprocity, and love is yourself. There is no shame in having blood relatives as a part of your community verses your village. You still love them, and they still have an important place in your lie. Everyone can’t be near your vulnerable spaces.

Dead to Wanting to Fit.

I’m dead to wanting to fit, and I strongly suggest you do the same. Be advised it doesn’t fix the situations and differences that exist. However, you are moving authentically so the rest will take care of itself.

Respect the Mind of Your Village.

Again, this is not about giving toxic a place, but more so those in your family/village, that are overshadowed and quieted by no fault of their own. Remember them and allow them to stand in their truth, and function as an active member of the village they love.  

Capacity Isn’t A Scapegoat.

We’ve got to do a better job of moving in sincerity with out village, before we look up to find ourselves standing alone. Sn individual is not going to wait forever while you decide whether, or not, you want to care. The misuse of capacity is cruel, and we should try honesty instead.  

The Hypocrisy is Blinding.

It is a corrosive disease that eats away at the foundation of any relationship. It is a gateway to soul deep lies, deception and manipulation. It is judgement in the most damaging form, and though it is easily seen…it’s hardly called out in a manner befitting the evil it intends.

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