(ThySistas.com) There is a particular tired that Black women know without anybody having to spell it out. Not from working long hours. This is the tired of shrinking yourself down, of bending into somebody you were never meant to be, until you wake up one day and hardly know the ...
(ThySistas.com) Few performers arrive on screen already understood, but she is one of them. A single expression carries what other actors need a page of dialogue to establish. Across sitcoms and dramas and animated features alike, audiences learned to read her instantly as the one in charge of everybody’s business, ...
(ThySistas.com) Something unfolded in Arlington last weekend that plenty of us are still turning over in our minds. Rep. Jasmine Crockett walked onto the stage at AT&T Stadium during the R&B tour stop, stood beside Chris Brown, Texas state Rep. Venton Jones and producer RoccStar, and announced a Congressional Record ...
(ThySistas.com) Somewhere between the punchlines and that golden statue, we stopped keeping count of how many firsts belonged to Caryn Elaine Johnson. The world simply knows her as Whoopi. A single name that carries weight, the kind earned across four decades of refusing to get small. Lately folks love to ...
(ThySistas.com) There was Lizzo again, gliding through New York during fashion week this past Friday, wrapped in a Kim Shui number with a cutout that dared you to look and a slit that climbed clear up one thigh. The singer didn’t tiptoe onto anybody’s radar. She arrived. Cameras swarmed, the ...
(ThySistas.com) I was raised to believe a woman who wanted respect had better learn to raise her voice. Come in loud. Plant your feet, put your hands on your hips, and dare anybody to test you. That was the lesson passed around a lot of our kitchens, and given the ...
(ThySistas.com) There is a certain freedom that arrives with age, and a good portion of it comes from finally understanding that you do not owe the world a narration of your days. Kerry Washington figured this out a long time ago, and without lecturing anybody, she has been showing the ...
(ThySistas.com) Somewhere in Sterling Heights tonight, under a Michigan sky already tilting toward fall, Erykah Badu stands on a stage earned twice over. The Michigan Lottery Amphitheatre marks stop number two on a run titled simply LIVE, and De La Soul is right there on the bill, the way old ...
(ThySistas.com) Somewhere along the way we got sold a lie. It goes like this. A woman only matters while she is running herself ragged, always on, always in view. Let her slow down for a season and folks will swear she quit. Given up. Lost the fire. Eve has spent ...
(ThySistas.com) Word crossed my timeline the way most things do now, wrapped in outrage and laughter at once. A wooden crate. Empty. Nearly a thousand dollars. My first reaction was not anger. It was that long, slow exhale my grandmother used to give when she caught grown people doing something ...