(ThySistas.com) Being single is not the end of the world. You can really experience life and actually enjoy it, being single. Don’t be in a rush to change your relationship status on Facebook from single to in a relationship, just for more likes and comments. Rushing into any relationship is not wise or healthy to do.
When you’re single, whether voluntarily or involuntary due to a breakup, divorce or death, you can use this time to really get to know yourself better. When you’re in relationships your happiness gets pushed to the back sometimes because your primary focus is on making your partner happy. So now that you’re single, enjoy this time and space in your life to rediscover what makes you happy.
If you recently experienced another bad breakup because you found yourself, yet again, in another bad relationship, take this time now that you’re single and really focus on the reasons why you keep picking the same “type” of person. Identify that void you feel and deal with it. If you don’t get to the bottom of why you keep getting involved in bad relationships or unhealthy relationships, you will continue to be heartbroken over and over again. Be totally honest with yourself about your past, because it could lead you to true happiness and love eventually.
When you’re single, you don’t have to be considerate of anyone else but yourself. You don’t have to cook and clean unless you want to (but cleanliness is next to godliness lol). You don’t have to call and “check-in” with someone or get their opinion about anything and you can make all of your life decisions, by yourself! It’s great to be able to move and exist in this big beautiful world at the discretion of yourself, your thoughts and opinions.
You don’t need to be in a relationship to make yourself feel complete. You should actually be complete before you enter into any relationship. A man or woman should only add value to the value that you already possess. To my understanding, the choices are hard out there dating for various reasons and age does not determine maturity. When you are single, live your life to the fullest, and this is not to say you can’t do that if you’re in a relationship.
Really evaluate your life now that you are single. You are in a great position to have the life that you really dreamed of once you do the inner work to get it. Living a single life is the healthiest thing that you can do for yourself.
Staff Writer; Felicia T. Simpson
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