(ThySistas.com) Loyalty and self erasure are not synonyms, though the romance script handed down to most of us treated them like interchangeable words. My family kept a version of one story on damn near every branch of the tree. One aunt paid a light bill eleven years running on hair ...

(ThySistas.com) Most of us picked up a rule about ambition without anybody ever handing it to us directly. Pick one thing. Get good at it. Let that be the whole of who you are. Nobody says it to be cruel. It tends to come from people who love you and ...

(ThySistas.com) Let me start with a confession before anyone comes for me. I watch. Every season, glass of something cold in hand, group chat lit up, my sister texting me theories at eleven at night about who is playing a game and who is genuinely soft for somebody. So this ...