Are We Teaching Our Children.

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(ThySistas.com) Everyone seems to want to tell parents what they feel is the correct way to raise children, while also telling us every child is different. Too many of us are being told out just out of diapers small children need to be independent, make choices, and have authority. However, if any of this is exercised outside of the home, like in school, parents will be hauled into the principal’s office for a conference. We want our children to be organized and aware of their surrounding yet we hesitate when it comes to consistent responsibility and expectations because we don’t want to “stress them out”. We are careful about applying the logic of you can do good in school and contribute at home so too many of us pick one. We don’t demand proper behavior in the home consistently with consequences, but try to defend ourselves when the behavior is now unacceptable in the public.

When we turn on the news and see our children dying in the streets, and being unlawfully handled by law enforcement we are ready to cry out…but our kids are not prepared for the reality of the world we life in. The bottom line is we must teach our children. It is a labor of love, it is repetitive, on many days you will be exhausted, and it will require you to get YOU together because yes they hear you…but more importantly your kids are watching you.

Let me clear, this is not about abusing children, and that has to be stated as that is far too often where the conversation goes when the issue of structure is brought up. Some of us are so caught up in not wanting to be the previous generation we refuse to acknowledge that in some areas they did get it right…and in some areas we are failing. The inverse is also correct. Wanting children to learn to be independent thinkers, and make wise choices is important. However, that may have to start with you making selections and teaching them how to choose in a safe environment. I can’t allow my four year old to decide what he’s eating for dinner. I can give him options to choose from. He still needs parental oversight as if its left up to him he might try to eat pizza every day, and would be deficient in terms of nutrition. I will not allow him to decide to wear shorts and a t-shirt in 40 degree weather. This might sound like no brainers…but for some reason it is not. Children are taught respect for authority at home [or not] before dealing with the public. There is no way they should treat the parent as though that parent is their servant that they don’t have to heed. We don’t begin teaching these lessons at six an seven…it starts from day one.

Our children are more resilient than we realize. They are not made of glass. They can go to school and be efficient, then come home and have chores that they are consistently responsible for. We are then training a child that can one day take care of themselves while maintaining a job. Everything we do now is building blocks to help them become respectful efficient human beings. Teaching them what they need to know doesn’t mean life will be fair with them…it means they are not on the wrong side of the situation. Life has consequences, so should your home. These are all things that need to be taught. If you find that you need help please reach out to your family, community, church, and various professionals. Yet remember, you know your child, and sometimes you will have to go with your gut.

Children are a 24/7 responsibility. They will learn as you are hands on with them, when you care about their day, when you discipline in love, and when you show up for them. We are teaching them when they watch us make responsible decisions, take a care for our health, say no, get up and go to work, when they see us communicate effectively, and when they realize we don’t ask them to do anything we ourselves don’t walk out before them. They experience us apologizing to them if we get it wrong because we are not perfect. They will be able to recall us telling them about the reality of the world they live in…they might hate to hear us repeat ourselves, but the wisdom will come back to them when they face life challenges. If we want out children to have a better chance at life and living successfully we must roll our sleeves up and parent, and support each other in the effort to parent our children individually and as a community.

Staff Writer; Christian Starr

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Terri says:

October 10, 2024 at 2:23 pm

What about teaching them to be responsible for their decisions and accountable for their actions? God will hold them to that and so will the law. So why don’t parents? And how can parents hold them to that your parents are not holding themselves to it?

KAMALA HARRIS and WOMEN’S REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS: THE TRUTH

I suggest all of you do the research on the truth about Margaret Sanger, the founder of Planned Parenthood, which is an organization that Kamala Harris strongly supports.

If you know the history of Planned Parenthood, you were realize that Margaret Sanger set up that organization to reduce the black population because she believed that inferior races should not repopulate. And she used the black church to covertly get that movement into the black community. 
It had nothing to do with the rights of black women. It had nothing to do with the health of black women. And it still doesn’t. Those are just the surface deceptions to draw women in and take advantage of women who are afraid, who have bad circumstances, or who are selfish and irresponsible.

Thanks to Margaret Sanger and planned parenthood, a lot of black women were sterilized or had unnecessary Hysterectomies. Plus, they don’t tell all the women about how much scar tissue can develop to block you from having children when you want to have children after you have had abortions.

Responsible parents teach our children that you are responsible for your decisions and accountable for your actions. The whole women’s reproductive rights deception is just the opposite of that. Don’t be a hypocrite.

For those who are married women, the Bible tells us that “our body is NOT our own”, but our husband’s and vice versa
(I Corinthians 7:4). Kamala Harris wants us to just disregard all that in order to be selfish, irresponsible and kill innocent unborn children just based on convenience and to escape accountability for our choices.

For those of you who are not married, but believe in God and the Bible, we can see in the Bible spelled out clearly that we are bought and paid for with a price, and our bodies are not our own (I Corinthians 6: 15-20). That is what it says. Our bodies are temples and they belong to our Creator . Too many women have forgotten that or don’t care. But God has not forgotten, and you reap what you sow.

I cannot support Kamala Harris asking all of us to just ignore that. No wonder she does not have children of her own. She is a feminist who believes that the woman should have all the rights and that the man and the innocent unborn child should have none. That is not what God says. Kamala is directly rebelling against the word of God. And anybody who supports her is doing the same thing.

I noticed that when men don’t want to take care of their children, they are called deadbeats. But when women want to kill an innocent unborn child for convenience, it is called “women’s reproductive rights.”. That is a lie by itself because God does not give us that right. The Constitution does not give us that right. And the Declaration of Independence says there is a “right to life”.

Also it is not just a woman’s body. Saying that it is your body and your choice is another part of the deception. And any ultrasound or sonogram can prove that. If you are promoting the women’s reproductive rights deception, you are repeating what they are programming you to repeat, the same words, the same lies. That is brainwashing.

IF YOU THINK ITS JUST THE WOMAN’S BODY, I DARE YOU TO WATCH AN ABORTION THEN SAY THAT!!!

On top of that, if you are saying that, you are not only rebelling against God. You were saying that he is wrong and that Kamala is right. You are also saying that you don’t care about what God says. But when did Kamala Harris create you? She didn’t. Can she answer for you on judgment day? No. And if you did not know the truth before, after reading this, you have been told so you cannot tell God you didn’t know.

Don’t buy into the lies to feed selfishness, rebellion against God’s word and irresponsibility. So any woman calling that a “right” is lying to herself and playing into depopulation of the black community. You cannot just want to do something because you are selfish or irresponsible and then jump up and call it a “right”. That does not make it one.

If a woman in America has full authority over her own body, prostitution would be legal everywhere. A woman using cocaine would be legal. Suicide would be legal because it’s her body. Walking down the street naked would be legal. Even not wearing a seatbelt would be legal because it’s her body and her car. All of these things are illegal. You cannot do whatever you want to do just because you say it’s your body. Only when it comes to depopulation and the deceptions that go with it does the issue of a woman having full rights over her own body come up. That is because the real agenda is de-population, not women’s rights or women’s health.

Margaret Sanger cared nothing about black women’s rights nor black women’s health. Planned parenthood is still following her agenda. So they don’t care about black women’s rights or black women’s health either. And neither does Kamala Harris. Not when she is telling you to oppose God himself. Who would tell you to do that if they knew who God is? Most of you know nothing about Kamala Harris’s spiritual beliefs, and those are what guides a person based on who they really are. But you do know in this area she opposes God directly without a problem.

The Bible says, you know a spirit by the fruit it bares. And just like the message of fake minister, Raphael Warnock, who also goes against the Bible by promoting the abortion deception, the fruit of Kamala Harris in her primary agenda is the destruction, sacrifice and dismemberment of innocent unborn children ripped right out of the womb. A lot of you better wake up.

For those who are going to talk about rape and incest and life of the mother, you need to know that is only about 1% of the abortion cases. Stop following Kamala Harris when she has positioned herself directly against God. If that does not matter to you, it should. But if it doesn’t, you have a bigger problem.

Roe v. Wade has been overturned so when Kamala goes against the current law of the land, she is a hypocrite. And how can we trust her to follow the law and keep her oath when that is not what she is doing now? The Bible tells us that we are to follow the law of the land because God has put all governments in place (Romans 13:1-2). The only time we don’t is when the laws of the land oppose the Word of God.

Trump tried to overthrow the election, but Kamala is proudly and directly opposing the law of the land while she is in office as vice-president. That means she cannot be trusted to uphold the law if she disagrees with it, even if it is the law. And that makes her a hypocrite because she keeps bragging about what she has done to support the laws of this country.

I am not voting in this election because I definitely cannot support Trump. But Kamala Harris is the Jezebel that most black women refuse to see. And just because somebody looks like us and talk like us and makes promises to rescue us, that does not mean that they are for us. Wake up. She is being used as a vessel to preemptively exterminate much of the black population. All with a smile and all while deceiving you by calling the murder of innocent unborn children a “right”.