Thursday, March 23, 2017

Every Black Man Doesn’t Hate You.

Tweet ( Sisters when someone says “every” they are lying. We live in a country whereby the propaganda machine has been created to destroy black love from both sides. None of us have met “every” black man…we don’t even know a quarter of them, and vice versa. The media wants us to believe that black men […]

Signs He’s Cheating Most Women Ignore.

Tweet ( If you’ve been with a partner for a while, you get a sense of their habits: the time of day they go to bed, when they get home from work, where they travel to and so on. And so if there’s a disturbance in these patterns, it’s often cause for concern. Most of the […]

That Grass Isn’t Always Greener.

Tweet ( It is true you can’t help who you fall in love with. However, this can only be stated when one doesn’t have a grudge, or issue, towards any particular group. Black women have internalized seeing black men with white women…especially when it happens in opposition to black women. Many of us have seen black […]

Sex in the Black Community.

Tweet ( In my last article, Inside the World of Kink, I wrote about sex in an evolved manner. People who have grown tired of the standard missionary style sex and who longed to get their freak on through intellectual kink. This time around, I’m discussing the vanilla side, and how blacks tend to exploit sex. […]

Dealing With a Breakup When Kids Are Involved.

Tweet ( It may be something that is a million miles away in your mind or something that is much closer for you. Whatever the case, there’s no doubt that breaking up with your partner is made all the more difficult if you have kids. Your number one priority will be protecting them and making sure […]

Rocky Relationship? Love Yourself.

Tweet ( All of us have, at some point in our lives, been in a relationship which was not the best fit for us. Whether it was not good for us because of conflicting personalities, you may have been subject to physical or mental abuse, the relationship just simply plodded along without any excitement (excitement is […]

How to Overcome Life’s Toughest Problems.

Tweet ( We all encounter problems in our lives. How severe the problem is differs from person to person. But we all know what it’s like to be faced with, what seems like, an impossible situation. Some of life’s toughest challenges concern our families, jobs, and health. It can be difficult to look objectively at a […]

5 Reasons Why Black Women Need Intentional Community.

Tweet ( True sisterhood cannot be forced but in an intentional community it is required. An intentional community is a planned residential community designed from the start to have a high degree of social cohesion and teamwork. The members of an intentional community typically hold a common social, political, religious, or spiritual vision and often follow […]

Why do (some) Black women OPENLY settle for being the Side Chick?

Tweet ( Invention of the word, Side Chick, to reference the woman who is willingly dating or being intimate with a married man is too clean. It has sanitized the realm of being the “other woman”, the whore, bed wench, the adulterer. Makes it seem like an acceptable title for someone to have or aspire to […]

Five Good Habits of Happy Couples.

February 20, 2017 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationship Talk, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( One of the best aspects of adulthood is having a healthy, strong relationship with a significant other (SO) that understands who you are. When a couple reciprocates the things in life that make each other better, that’s a recipe for a great relationship. Not everyone knows how to have a happy union and that’s […]

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